“UnimasMatrics98 Raya Get-together buffet”


Written on September 17, 2008 – 7:07 pm | by nurha

 It’s been so many years we have not been meeting each other as all of us are busy with our own schedule plus some of us are not based in Kch. I remembered the last gathering I attended ( I bet some of you also same as me) was in 2002 @ Azwan’s house ermm…@ Batu Kawa (betul kah ya?)

So, as most of us will be in Kch for Raya (I supposed), we’d like to have a simple yet happening “UnimasMatrics98 Raya Get-together as below:-

Siney pok?                                        Chicken Hartz Buffet, Satok

Bila ya bah?                                      5/10/2008 (Ahad)

Kol brapa ngek?                               3.30 pm – 5.30 pm

Brapa ‘hengget’ perlu ku bayar?  RM 17.70 (boleh lah pinjam anak pun angpau raya lok, dpt gaji bayar)

Dress code:                                      Ngegeh juak eh bedresscode indah…pakei jak lah apa2 yg kacak, dh nama pun Raya get together, pakei lah baju Raya…:D tp sik paksa la..

 As unofficial but not a ‘syok-sendiri’ raya gath committee members, we’d really appreciate if you could reply for the confirmation (kira mcm RSVP lah mun org nak polah majlis besar). This could help us to book spaces at the venue selected. You are encouraged to bring your family. But for those yang ada family but would like to come ‘solo’ pun di alu-alukan lah…:D ehehhe. And sapa yg single but want to bring their ‘wifey/hubby wannabe’ are really really welcome to join.

 Last but not least, let’s make this happen even though you can only come for an hour or half (tp rugi lah bayar tp sekejap jak…). We hope we can still share & enjoy the moments we had while we still can.

Wishing you a blessed Ramadhan a-Mubarak & Selamat Berpuasa!

‘Unofficial Matrics Raya Gathering Committee 2008′

Nurha 012-222 7714
Nuraya 016- 882 0043

In loving memory of our x-classmate of Physical Science A Matriculation –Allahyarhamah Siti Arfizah Ariffin (1980-2002) , Al-Fathihah.

 

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Mya…where’s ur daddy?


Written on May 26, 2008 – 6:27 pm | by nurha

yesterday we (me, mya & daddy) went to Big5 (a supermarket @ bdr baru sentul) after pickd up mya at her bbsitter’s. b4 we came into the shop, mya sempat requested her daddy "nak rengget.." refering to 2×50 cent syiling so she can play wuddayacallit thing tht kids normally play like those with cartoon characters "ultraman", "peter rabbit" etc….so daddy jst went into d shop first..while momma with mya try to figure out why tht thingy is not moving or shaking?……at d end we figured out it was not function …

so both of us masok kedai n search for daddy…there we go n searching….i saw daddy at one of the last shelve with drypers….and i was about to pull mya’s hand to go there…but….suddenly mya said.."maaaa….here lah…." pulling my hand to opposite way…behind this one guy wearing white shirt long sleeve yg dilipat dilengan (kemeja org slalu pakei g keja) caring this 1 pack of huggies on his left hand…and then he turned to the left side shelve where mya also walked (still holding &pulling my hand) to the same direction as the guy…
and she said.."ha…sinilahh….daddy…" sambil mencucuk2 buntut tht guy….u know when kids pointing at somthing eagerly….saying like "i want this! i want this!" kinda way…hahhha…at tht time momma laughed already…even thou tht time i supposd to be embarrased? hahaha…but couldnt help it! mya still didnt look @ tht guy’s face bcuz he was facing his back at us…so then i goes like.."Mya! hey stop! come here!…look carefully…r u sure that is ur daddy?" and she goes like…"owh..ow…"
kinda funny when a 3 yrs old kid looked so embarrased and she jst cover her face with both hand and walked away….so i jst apologized to that guy and he jst smiled as he knows how’s kid like…bcuz i think he is also a father…haha cuz he’s buying a diapers??

so then..mya went to the other end and searched for her daddy again…while her momma can’t stop laughing at thing tht had happened….-LOL-

Redah je laaaaaaaaaahhh


Written on May 8, 2008 – 10:23 am | by nurha

Thursday – 8.5.08

Yesterday was a-not-bad day for me….busy with new project preparation, calling all vendors…getting quotation…info…research….etc..bla bla..
But yet am still happy with my job (as of now la..) I hope I can sustain the feeling – d eagerness, d happiness…what ever ness la…yg positive…
Glad tht I got an sms frm my niece actually my husband niece…she jst gave birth to a 2.95kg baby boy!! Wow!! Alhamdullilah another cute & healthy boy been brought to this world during a month of mother’s day celebration.

Guess what? My so-called-core-project will be back soon! To be frank…I don’t really know how do I feel rite now…some of my part say..”OMG! how many years more do I have to do this??again n again? Urghhh!!”…while the other part says “ok..! I should have get new idea this time n am really releaseeee….i mean way way release that the client doesn’t want the ‘tour’ to be done as part of the promotion!” that’s mean less travel time!!! Woo hoo!!! But ya…there’ll be a challenge (wuddaya mean by ‘a’ challenge?? Of course more challenges) to get the project to be what the client wants it to be.

Seriously, I hate that till now I don’t hv that ‘kill skills’ of communicating with clients. Even though when u’r promoted because your manager see you now as what they see u like them in future, but deep deep inside u there is a part where you think that you can do it as what they want u to do but actually u don’t? get what I mean? I mean…ya…I don’t know what I mean. See? Ya…life is suck (as what translated by Kami The Movie – kehidupan adalah palat?? don’t u think that word in Bahasa is too harsh?? Anyway the movie will be meeting u at the cinema this October)

Talking about yesterday…(again…it was a-not-bad day) me n my manager met this photographer…i’m not sure whether his name is infamous in Msia photography. But ya…he’s quite nice person, really have good photos showed in his website. His name is Asyraf Lee. First impression I thought he’s kinda guy that –im-looking-at-the-goodlooking-girl-only when he talked. Which make me felt a bit jerk at first. Reason why I said tht because, I’ve been there in the meeting with my manager n him but whenever he talked he didn’t even take a glance at me??!!and that had happened for about 7 mins ..i guess. I know I was not d one who do the talk..but I really hate it when people didn’t look at me when they talk…as if I was not there! Ok..jst cut it off…guy will say…”ala….remeh jak ya…sik nangga muka time kelakar pun alu nak kecik ati…pompuan..pompuan…pa jak la…”

Back to what are the projects tht I’ll be in this coming months, the one I mentioned earlier is still in proposal phase while the new one would be an exciting camp to be held in June. Hope everything will go to the flow. And be as successful program as we all pray it would be! So many things that supposed to be done this week but seems like we’re having a delay in almost everything.-sigh- so..nothing much I can do about it…as what Nadia AF6’s tagline…”redah je lahhh!!”

 

Oh…by
the way…the photographer I mentioned earlier was actually a very nice guy…n
cute though..:D –wink- ;)

 

Goodbye…..


Written on April 24, 2008 – 8:43 pm | by nurha

Coffee Prince OST
Goodbye - The Melody
-specially dedicated to my luvly boyfren/hubby who damn loves futsal, soccer,n currently badminton (his new hobby)-

Oh…I love you… (deng…i do…)
Endless time (yup…endless love..even though u don’t know..)
I lose my mind (not yet la…still concious )
Because of you
Oh I want to kill myself (u know y? cuz almost every nite u went out..if not futsal /badminton)
You are the only love, In my life (…no more d only one la…now i have someone who watch tv with me every nite when u’re out…watch barney for sure..)
The only thing there is night (u should know it dear…night d only time we can hang out, chit chat,  mengumpat, n  spend time with mya….together…-sob..sob.-)
My love you are every, Breath that I,Take ….(yup…together with the O2 that i supposed to inhale..)
oh I love you

If you go… say good bye ("mya,come n say goodbye n amin daddy"…you normally say b4 u go for futsal..or badminton…)
But you know this
I will always love you
Bye bye if you go (go lah…play lah….dun worry…i’ll be staying n watching barney with mya…huhu…-sob,sob-)
Say goodbye
But you know this
I will always love you(when u play with ur frens,,,jst remember…me n mya always love u…huhuhuh…)

Otton maldo hagi himdul ttae
Ddo kudae-ga pugo shipul ttae
Amuron maldo
Amuron haeng-dongdo
Mu-otdo nan hal su optjanha

(Translation: When it`s hard to say anything
And when I want to see you (when can i see u? frm monday - friday nite..u’ve been bz with ur sports …)
Can`t say anything (ya…can’t say anything cuz i respect u n ur hobbies…)
Can`t do anything (ya..can’t do anything cuz…u r u…)
I can`t do anything at all) (huhuh…cuz i know u damn loves futsal n soccer b4 i met u…but now u add badminton in ur list!!)

Everyday every night (yup…everynite….-sob-)

DBA - 21.01.2008


Written on January 21, 2008 – 6:27 pm | by nurha

so i went to this DBA session @ the D’House (DiGi House) Shah Alam yesterday . the experience was great! got to know Digi’s working environment, it’s corp strategy, financial, HR…n lots more.

d house was launced last year by our deputy PM. and it is not like others telco’s tower which is taller, dHouse is only 4 storey building. which has green environment, fresh flowers inside d building, good feng shui perhaps…but ya…really nice n cosy environment.

so DG is about Daring, Different & Dynamic…ppl might dare to be different…but what they do…is/will it dynamic enuff to b different from others??…Digi encourages their staff to be out frm the norm. ya most ppl will d thing because it was done before..’u have to do it because it supposed to be done like tht…’ that what ppl might say when asking y did u do this in this kinda way…n so on… ??

during lunch, i got so many useful thoughts from the Digi’s Dir Corp Affairs, Tunku Alizakri. goshh..he is sooo…humble, motivated yet very simple person..cuz as the CEO (Morten Lundal) mentioned DiGi is about simplicity. he also said tht in DiGi they don;t have staff evaluation, but they do have assessment.(some company used the evaluation to sack some ppl who they don’t like eventhou the person have done the best for the company) as in DiGi, they didn’t only care about the outcome/product that their staff had produced but HOW they do it.because that will make them different. apart from the qualification, DiGi only looks for value & attitude in their recruitment.

a lots of points been presented during tht 1-day session. but i do really like the presentation by the CEO which is the ‘10 things they didn’t teach in MBA’:

  1. don’t accept normal as inevitable
  2. don’t read management literature
  3. most company dysfunctional, CEOs insecure
  4. decision are often irrational
  5. the incredible is actually possible
  6. the small thing matter, celebrate mistakes & learning b challenging, energizes! have trusts & give resposibility
  7. office politics is everywhere, one company -mindset is hard to achieve but go liberating when it’s there.
  8. simplicity is one of the most important business concepts.
  9. leadership is about managing mindsets through symbolism, rhetoric & good judgement
  10. DON’T WORK TOO HARD (really loves this last point!! :P)

at the end of the day, we got lots of knowledge being shared, nice individual decorated frame as souvenir and also we brought back with us a not-more-than-500-words-essay assignment which due on 4th Feb 08: "Picture life as it would be 10 years from now. If that’s how life is going to be, what should you start changing to live that live in the best way possible?"

visit DiGi website to know more about this program. :P

Imbasan 2007 & Goals for 2008


Written on January 19, 2008 – 6:37 am | by nurha

My self-reflection of year 2007:

  • handling the same project for 4 times in a row. glad one of d new idea proposed agreed by client. but still, many mistakes been made through out the implementation. reasons: lack of self-motivation-bored-lack of creative ideas.
  • tahun paling stress handle core project because sometimes had to do it alone. where resources were taken away for some other projects during d critical time.
  • first time involved in an international conference event. glad to be as one of the team. (feb)
  • first time being involved in a web development for some client’s project. unfortunately, been outlisted from the team when i had to get back into my core project which i hv been doing for 4 years in a row.(mar)
  • 2 of my bestfrens gave birth of their first baby, nandy - baby girl n ezza-baby boy.
  • moved to a new apartment at Sentul Perdana.(apr)
  • my hubby bought this laptop as what i wish i had since year 2006.(feb)
  • met my x(1st)bf tru myspace.lost contact since 1996. he’s married with an oversea-graduated teacher and blessed with an adorable baby boy.(june)
  • met my x-bf(2nd) during my project site visit. lost contact since i graduated in year 2002. he’s also married with a teacher and has a couple of boys but not twin.(oct)
  • met my bestfren cum senior (unimas) at pasar malam danau kota while looking for mya’s spongebob t-shirt.lost contact after graduated (2002) he’s a bizman, married, a baby gurl named Ara (if i’m not mistaken cuz it was printed as his stall’s name).(nov)
  • the highest number of unpaid leave (in year 2007)taken since working in WG.-maybe this is one of the reason my evaluation result was not good.
  • the ‘best’ birthday celebration i ever had (was it?). got back frm work, n stayed at home and watching tv with mya untill we sleep.(nov)
  • introduced & fell in luv with the term ‘Information Professional’.started my journey as an info pro candidate.(dec)
  • Aidilfitri 2007: Alhamdullilah, praise to God, my family gathered again happily in a simple n grateful Eid celebration. and it was the last raya celebration with Arwah Abg.(oct)
  • last but not least, the lost of my beloved eldest brother Allahyarham Abg Syidan on 16th Dec 2007.Al-Fatihah…

2008 Goals 

  • lessen the number of unpaid leaves.
  • to sustain n improve work performance.
  • increase my english & BM vocabulary.
  • to add more books for my home library collection. (still in the development process)
  • upgrade the laptop’s spec.-RAM n harddisk-
  • -work n study smart?-on how to be a good working-mother.
  • last but not least, to work out all the above goals.

Pemergianmu untuk selamanya….Al-Fatihah for my late brother Allahyarham Mohammad Hasyidan Matrang on 6 Zulhijjah 1428H (16Dis2007)


Written on December 27, 2007 – 7:19 am | by nurha

It’s been almost 2 weeks (12 days) after my dearest big brother passed away at age 28 years old bcuz of lung cancer (he’s a year older thn me). It was a very shock news for me n my family when suddenly on 16 dis 2007 at 8.30am i jst woke up frm my bed…my lil bro ‘dedek’ called from Sibu .."nor..abg dah sekda…(crying on the phone).."  then after tht…dedek called mom at kuching to inform the news…as what my lil sis said…my mom screamed madly over d phone after hearing the news…while my other 2 lil brothers woke up when hearing my mom screamed. i can’t imagine how was the situation at my home in kch …i called my mom, try to comfort her which i was myself don;t know what else should i say cuz i was too still in disbelief situation …i informed her tht we’re packing up our stuff and straight away go to the lcct to catch any soonest flight we could get. i couldn’t stop crying from the moment i received the news. i supposed to go to citrus hotel n meet my colleagues for cyberlinq event.but, i hv to cancel it n called my superior to inform ’bout the news. i met my superior n passd her all my stuff for the event b4 i leave.

afther a long queue,Alhamdullilah…my hubby managed to get 2.10pm flight to kch. Usu Semon(my auntie who also went to sibu with arwah) called and informed tht they departed from sibu at 12.40pm, expcted to arrive at Kch by 7pm.Syukur, jenazah telah disempurnakan di Sibu oleh ahli2 surau Jabatan Bomba Sibu before berangkat ke kch and sent by using Ambulance of Jbtn Bomba Sibu. A million thanks & appreciation to staff of Jbtn Bomba Sibu n Kuching di atas pengurusan penghantaran jenazah.

we arrived at kch by 4pm, my brother in- law fetchd us a the airport.di perkarangan rumah,  all my family members (dekat n jauh), neighbours n friends were there waiting for the jenazah to arrive frm sibu. i saw my mom n hug her, n i jst remembered she said.."sabar jak nor…kita dah puas berusaha…Allah lebih sayangkannya…"

Jenazah arwah sampei kch after margrhib, kain putih yg menutupi muka arwah dibukak, kucupan terakher from mak, bapak, me, dedek, boboy, n ayang. adi (adik laki ke-3) maseh sik mampu menahan kesedihan mengesat air mata dgn hand towel,…nenek yang pernah menjaga arwah waktu kecik hingga zaman remaja menangis sehingga x mampu memberi kucupan terakher khuatir air mata menitis ke atas jenazah. beberapa minit b4 Isya’, jenazah telah selamat dikebumikan di Tanah Perkuburan Kpg Gita. Alhamdullillah..

last time i met arwah abg was on mid november when he came to kl to meet an ustaz at bdr baru ampang. last phone call was on 10 dec, and his last sms was on 12 dec (my lil’ sis bday) which i promised to go with him for his first chemo treatment at SGH (Swak General Hospital) on 2nd jan 2008.

antara brg2 peninggalan arwah yg paling menyentuh hati - set Handycam disc yg sempat arwah rakamkan dari firstday dibeli (9dec)sehingga malam sebelum (15Dec07) pemergian arwah, audio mp3 player yang selalu memainkan surah2 al-quran sepanjang arwah di rumah. and also all the memories during our childhood. nya ngajar baca al-fatihah setiap kali mun lalu kubur org islam, ajar how to play chess, he taught me how to bike after my father bought me my first bicycle…
he was such a very caring n loving brother for us, a very good son and we bet he was also a very nice friend. Abang will always be in our heart and may Allah blessed his soul…Aminn…

Al-Fatihah buat Allahyarham Mohammad Hasyidan Matrang (17 Apr 1979 - 16 Dis 2007)

Travel Pants


Written on November 4, 2007 – 2:12 pm | by nurha

Heiiyaa…i’m now at Terengganu State Library waiting for my 3.00pm trip to Dungun. i was here (kuala tganu) since 8.30 am n my event will be on 4.30 pm!!! no noon flight from KL - KTGanu…so sadd….n i had to wake up at 3AM jst to catch my 7.05 am flight.

So, this is my first time in Terengganu specifically at Kuala Terengganu. it’s a small city,but can sense tht they are many nice people here…hehehe…mainly because of the person in charge of  multimedia section in this library can ‘jaga’ my lappy while i was away for 10 mins (to where else…to d loo la..human got daily ‘business’ maaa). and also Pak Haji Salleh d Taxi driver that willing to be my 1-day driver in Kuala Terengganu n Dungun with quite a fair rate.so..if there is one person here who did not do nice to me…so i can say…Terengganu doesn’t have any nice people…so evil kan when i say such word "kerana nila setitik rosak susu sebelanga"…no lah kidding la…everywhere got nice n bad people…not only Tganu. i cannot say much about the whole place, since i managed to go to Central Market (Pasar Payang), the library,bank (cuz i desperately need money to buy 2 pieces of batik (1-shirt for my hubby, 1-kain for me myself) not tht batik sarong ok…, & the bus station which was the busiest place here and i was stranded there for about 1hr because it was raining. so now, i jst surfing the net while waiting for my driver to pick me frm here to go to Dungun for my 4.30 event at Kuala Abang. and he will sent me straight to Airport once i done with the school event. Hope i can catch my 9.20pm flight to KL and it won’t delay any minute or hour…please please…need to get home as fast as i can…cuz i miss my lil gurll…
and because i have to go to JB early in the morning (7.55am flight) for another CyberlinQ event. at the event will b held from 2.00pm - 4.00pm. haiiyoo…sempat jumpa mya for jst a couple of hours..sad sad sad…cian baby … and since there’s  fully book air ticket ging bac to KL ..i have to take a 5hrs journey back to KL by bus lor…n i would b reach home by 11pm!! and…i’ve only been given a half day leave!! uuhuhuh….-sigh-

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i read NST today, n guess what…another case like Nurin’s case happened again, but this time the gurl was 9years & she lived in a 24hrs security guard condo. she’s been thrown from her floor to d ground after the ‘devil with human face’ raped, abused & sodomised her. whenever i heard this case with kids are the victims, my heart hurt very much that i can’t imagine how’s the parent have to deal with this cruel situation. i pray tht Allah God Almighty will protect my kids n other kids from this cruel n unexceptable crime happen in future. For this little indian gurl may she rest-in-peace, n for Allahyarham Nurin, may Allah blessed her soul.

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-Me: 2.12pm @ Multimedia section, Perbadanan Perpustakaan Awam Terengganu-

What i’ve learn from my baby..part II


Written on October 29, 2007 – 9:33 pm | by nurha

My baby Mya is now 2 years 9mths…she’s still learning how to speak. i supposed kids at her age are able to speak well..but mya seems to be slow in the development..maybe because she’s having a language conflict..-daytime with her babysitter who speak KL malay, at home Swak malay + english. but i admire her eagerness to speak in her own way n language even thou we (me n daddy) don;t seem to understand…xtually we totally don’t understand..hahha..but we jst act like ya..we know what u talking about dear…(so sad kan..uhuh)
but..there ARE few words that she managed to pronounce properly.."SEKOLAH".., ‘Cantik’, ‘makan’, ‘fish’ (she loves to see fish.)ow dear…momma is so proud of u!

anyway..here are more words that we have learned from her:
koko nani - susu /milk (till now i’m still wondering how she can build this word at its mean susu? susu - nani koko? )
nani - air suam (still…:D)
omas - thomas (toys thomas & fren)
busyuk - busuk
e-num - minum
ken - chicken (she loves fried chicken very much!)
akashi - KFC
akashishi - KLCC (i guess u guy thought it was KFC n KFC but u wrong!)
pisa - pizza..:D
bukak - bukak & tutup
ukis - tulis/ lukis
kis - kiss..
alakomm- assalamualaikumm
allamm - walaikumusallam
naitt - good nite
i guess that’s the most frequent used words came out from her that i remember…

hoping to see more words n new vocabs from her..Mya! Chia yuk! chia yuk!

Selamat Menyambut Bulan Ramadhan…


Written on September 5, 2007 – 2:29 am | by nurha

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Semoga kalian dimurahkan rezeki sepanjang bulan Ramadhan dan Selamat Berpuasa….:D